In Japan, the practice of tipping for services is not commonplace. Service charges are usually included in the final bill, and there is no habitual expectation for additional gratuity. This cultural norm spans across various service industries, from restaurants and hotels to taxis. However, the etiquette around tipping “urisen” boys – those who work in Japan’s male escort industry – can differ and is often contingent on the policies of individual establishments.
Understanding Shop Policies: Before deciding to offer a tip to an “urisen” boy, it is crucial to understand the specific shop’s stance on gratuities. Some establishments may have clear policies in place, while others leave it to the discretion of the customer. It is advisable to check the shop’s rules or inquire directly with the staff.
Quality of Service: Tipping as a gesture of appreciation for exceptional service is sometimes practiced within the “urisen” industry. Clients who have experienced noteworthy service may choose to give a tip as a token of gratitude and recognition of the service provider’s efforts.
Appropriate Amount: If tipping is a practiced norm, offering an amount that aligns with industry standards is preferable. Excessive tipping can cause confusion or discomfort, so gauging an appropriate sum is important.
Ultimately, the decision to tip “urisen” boys rests on personal discretion. Despite the lack of a general tipping culture in Japan, offering a small sum as a special thank you for outstanding service can be a personal way to express gratitude. However, it is not an obligation, and the absence of a tip should not be taken negatively given the cultural context.
I’m Ken from Toronto, Canada, and I currently work as an English teacher in Japan. Fascinated by Japanese literature and history, I was drawn to live here to immerse myself further in the culture. I’m actively engaged in the Japanese gay community and have a particular interest in the unique culture of “urisen” bars. Living in Japan has allowed me to act as a bridge between cultures while continuing to grow personally.
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